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Knowledge is part of recovery.

A curated library of articles, guides, and frameworks for survivors, supporters, and professionals navigating the aftermath of high-control group involvement.

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Understanding your experienceFor survivorsComing soon

The BITE model explained

Steven Hassan's BITE model covers Behaviour, Information, Thought, and Emotional control. A practical introduction for survivors and supporters.

6 min read
Recovery & healingFor survivorsComing soon

The first steps after leaving

Leaving is only the beginning. This resource covers the disorientation, grief, and unexpected emotions that often follow, and why they're a normal part of the process.

10 min read
Recovery & healingFor survivorsComing soon

Finding a therapist who understands

Not all therapists are equipped to work with cult survivors. This guide covers what to look for, what questions to ask, and what red flags to watch for.

7 min read
Relationships & familyFor survivorsComing soon

Explaining your experience to family and friends

When the people closest to you don't understand what you've been through, it can feel isolating. Practical guidance for navigating these conversations.

8 min read
Relationships & familyFor survivorsComing soon

Shunning and family separation

For many survivors, leaving means losing contact with family members who remain in the group. This resource explores the grief of shunning and paths forward.

9 min read
Research & frameworksFor everyoneComing soon

Lifton's eight criteria for thought reform

Robert Lifton's foundational framework for identifying thought reform environments, developed from his research with survivors of Chinese re-education programmes.

8 min read
Recovery & healingFor survivorsComing soon

Trauma bonding and why leaving is so hard

The psychological mechanisms that make it difficult to leave — even when you can see the harm. Understanding trauma bonding is a key part of recovery.

9 min read
Recovery & healingFor survivorsComing soon

Who am I now? Rebuilding identity after leaving

High-control groups often become the core of a member's identity. This resource explores what it means to rebuild a sense of self after leaving.

11 min read
Relationships & familyFor everyoneComing soon

Supporting a loved one who has left

If someone you care about has recently left a high-control group, this guide offers practical advice on how to help without causing further harm.

7 min read
Research & frameworksFor everyoneComing soon

Glossary of cult recovery terms

A plain-language guide to the terminology used in cult recovery research and clinical practice, from BITE model to thought-stopping.

5 min read
High-demand groupsFor everyoneComing soon

What is a high-demand group?

High-demand groups require total loyalty, control members' time and relationships, and punish dissent. This article explains the term, how it differs from 'cult', and why it matters for survivors.

8 min read
High-demand groupsFor everyoneComing soon

The spectrum of high-demand: from controlling to coercive

Not all high-demand groups look the same. This article maps the spectrum from high-demand religion to coercive control, helping survivors locate their own experience.

10 min read
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